Monday, May 16, 2011

Label Validate!

Lately, I've been having some amazing conversations with close friends about dating and intimate relationships with men. It seems as though that as woman, we are way more interested in having our relationships be defined with depth. it is important to us to know who and what we mean to the beings that we are dating or seeing. For me I realized it was a sense of validation to have the man label me, or identify me as his woman, girl, goddess, etc. Let's admit it! for most of us it feels good knowing the outcome, knowing where we stand in the relationship, and How he Feels about us! Right?

This is a specific topic of interest that I am discovering new things about and what's even more intriguing is that while I have wallowed over this need of fulfillment through a title, I realized that at the core I was holding abandonment beliefs about men. This sparked me to delve deeper in my healing process to overcome mental, spiritual, and financial sabotage related around self-worth. By no means am I saying that titles don't hold some special place, but it's truly about the value the individual places upon him/herself. There also needs to be a mutual overstanding and effective form of communication between the two beings. One that leaves both people clear about what is transpiring. However, even with all of this, there is such a beauty in the realm of  the unknown, in allowing ones self to be lead by spirit in all things!

Currently, I've been reading a few books around the 7 Universal Principles and the Egyptian Metaphor. Guilt and Forgiveness have been the catalyst in recognizing the issues and old belief systems I need to Let Go of! The information that I've been gathering from these recent studies confirms the creations of my intentions. Where my focus has been.  Moreover, it confirms the conditioning and the steps needed to begin aligning with healthier outcomes in my relationships and overall life experiences.

Everything standing before me, is a projection of my belief systems, which have been heavily influenced not only by society, but also by my upbringing as a child. In starting on the journey to forgiveness I am learning to release any blame, or negative judgement against my parents and society.  Labels are nothing more than diverse aspects of a story. Something we've either made up or have allowed ourselves to fall under. Good person, bad person, rich, poor, middle class, hateful, loving, doctor, lawyer, nutritionist, singer, dancer, actor, actress, model, teacher, etc. All of these are labels that we have decided to create AND have actually been at
some point or another either in this life or past lives.

The Law of Correspondence As above So Below, let's me know that everything that exists in the galaxy, stars, planets, constellations, God, exist within me. The Kingdom of Heaven is within, Now with that type of overstanding, Why would any of us need to have any quarrels about whether we are given the title of "Wifey" or "FWB" ( Friend with Benefits). : ) Just my thoughts in this moment, What about you?

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